Helpful Ways to Limit Negative Self-Talk

It is easy to be hard on ourselves and think that no matter what we do, someone else can do it better. Have you ever noticed that the things you say to yourself are not things you would ever say to another person? This is negative self-talk and it can be detrimental to mental health. So read on for some ways to limit this habit.

Step Back

When catching yourself thinking negative thoughts, or putting yourself down, stop and think for a second. A great tip is to as yourself, “who told me this?” You will start to find that the only person who is telling you these things is yourself. As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Remember that our insecurities start with the things we tell ourselves to believe.

Support System

Another way to catch yourself practicing negative self-talk is by telling someone you trust the exact thoughts you are thinking. This gets your thoughts out there and a new perspective from someone you trust can help you realize that the thought itself is outlandish. Being vulnerable in this way can help those you trust become closer to you, and when you feel more supported, you can practice more self-love.

Affirmations
Listening to some positive affirmations or even reciting them to yourself will help give you a positive frame of mind. There are plenty of television shows and social media channels that promote and showcase negativity. Creating a safe and positive space can change the daily way you think about yourself.

Humans are prone to error which is why there is the “nobody is perfect” mantra. It is easy to be hard on ourselves and difficult to be nice. A way to start addressing your negative self-talk is by implementing these steps when you catch yourself thinking negatively.

Dr. Barbara R. Edwards, Princeton Internist, practices at Penn Medicine Princeton Health in the Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center. She is also the Academic Director for the Ambulatory Residency Program at Penn Medicine Princeton Health.

How the Weather May Impact your Mental Health

In the Northeast, we run the gamut of weather events. Between hurricanes and blizzards, extreme heat and floods—we experience it all between each of the four seasons. As the weather here can be extreme, you can expect to experience some mood changes related to the weather. Read on for ways the weather affects your mental health.

Stress

If you find yourself stressed when extreme weather is predicted, this is not an abnormal feeling. Many people find these situations stress triggers, and chronic stress goes hand in hand with mental illness. These trigger anxiety and depressive symptoms which is why you find yourself in a worse mood during months of extreme weather like the cold.

Weather Phobia

There are instances where you are not just stressed out about the weather, but feel intense fear regarding it. Having a weather phobia is rare, but is extremely possible. It’s normal to have fear about things we cannot control, and being worried about how weather could affect your day negatively could cause some anxiety. If you find your fear of impending weather is having an impact on your ability to live your daily life, try talking to your doctor or a therapist who can help you learn coping mechanisms.

Heat vs Cold

When it comes to humidity and the hotter months, people tend to be easily irritable. Research has shown that when there is more humidity, aggression and conflict happen at a higher rate than during the colder months. Still, during colder months, you may find yourself feeling grumpier and less motivated to leave your home to do the things you normally love to do.

While we’ve all experienced how the weather can have a small influence on mood, some people experience this on a deeper level. Seasonal Affective Disorder happens when the seasons change. Be aware of how the weather can impact your mood in both positive and negative ways and seek help if you feel as though coping mechanisms could help you regain a sense of control of your emotions when the weather seems to always rain on your parade.

Dr. Barbara R. Edwards, Princeton Internist, practices at Penn Medicine Princeton Health in the Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center. She is also the Academic Director for the Ambulatory Residency Program at Penn Medicine Princeton Health.

Places to Travel to Volunteer

Volunteer work can become a lifelong commitment for those who have discovered a passion for giving back. It is an opportunity to meet new people, have a new perspective on different places, and to help those who are less fortunate. There are hundreds if not thousands of organizations to volunteer with in locations worldwide, but where should one go? Keep in mind that some places may have different kinds of services and organizations available. Here are a few places to travel for volunteer work:

India

Despite a continued increase in economic growth and being a beautiful country, communities in India are still struggling with certain aspects of daily life. Some of these include proper housing, medical care, and access to clean water. Many hospitals and clinics need volunteers pertaining to dental and medical assistance as well as basic health, disease, and, of course, the pandemic.

South Africa

South Africa is not only known for its tourism, history and wildlife. It’s also known for its volunteer work concerning education, development, and conservation. This country is wonderful to both explore and work in to help the less fortunate. Volunteers can help with things like building construction and educational projects and activities for the youth.

Peru

Peru is very notable for its tourism spots like Machu Picchu and other ancient areas with gorgeous landmarks such as its mountains, beaches, and valleys. The country hosts an assortment of charity work and associations that help with water sanitation, farming, and healthcare.

Dr. Barbara R. Edwards, Princeton Internist, practices at Penn Medicine Princeton Health in the Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center. She is also the Academic Director for the Ambulatory Residency Program at Penn Medicine Princeton Health.

Things to do With Holiday Leftovers

Following a major holiday, there are usually plenty of leftovers to enjoy for days. Though eating the same thing for a couple meals straight can become stale fast. Here are a few ideas to help you enjoy your leftovers!

Mashed Potato Pancakes

Mashed potatoes are a holiday favorite for Thanksgiving and Christmas, so try taking them in a new direction with these mashed potato pancakes. For these you need an egg, flour and mashed potatoes. You can add whatever you’d like into the mix to make them your own. After mixing, just form a pancake and fry them in the pan for about five minutes and enjoy!

Ham and Cheese Bake

After a long and tiring holiday, cooking may be one of the last things you want to do. Making something easy is always appreciated during this time of year. That’s why the Ham and Cheese Bake is an easy way to get rid of the leftovers that are taking up space in your fridge, and you can get rid of more than one leftover item by putting it in the bake.

Veggie Fried Rice

Spice up your veggies with this fried rice recipe. The recipe itself is Spicy Vegetable Egg Fried Rice, so if you are not one who likes spicy avoid adding the heat. Fried rice is a simple and effective way to use up those veggies. Just chop them up and add them to the rice and top it all with seasonings and sauces you like.

Don’t just keep eating the same meal after the holidays, try and change it up. Trying some new recipes can help clear out space in the fridge and give you more dinner ideas for the future!

Dr. Barbara R. Edwards, Princeton Internist, practices at Penn Medicine Princeton Health in the Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center. She is also the Academic Director for the Ambulatory Residency Program at Penn Medicine Princeton Health.

Getting a Workout in With Cold Weather

Working out when it is cold outside can seem nearly impossible with snow obstructing your running path, ice patches that can cause you to slip and even a chilly weather forecast can be enough to keep you inside. Though there are some benefits to working outside during the cooler months, read on for tips on getting in a workout.

YouTube Videos

If you are someone that does not want to risk going for a run during the winter, try watching some YouTube videos to learn how to do standing cardio. You can do this outside or inside. Exercising in colder temperatures helps build up your endurance and going along with some stationary cardio can help prevent you from slipping and falling while gaining the benefits of the cold temperature.

Shoveling

Now this kills two birds with one stone. Doing the snow clean up around your residence gets you outside and increases your heart rate. This chore is one of the best full-body workouts you can find yourself doing in the cold weather. Be careful not to overdo it when shoveling to avoid neck and back injuries. You should avoid this if you have any history of heart issues. Consider shoveling while it is snowing but before the snow gets too deep so that you are lifting lighter loads of snow.

Playing in the Snow

Bring out your inner child by just going outside and enjoying the snow fall. Find a big hill and go sledding–you’ll definitely get a workout climbing back up to the top. With the layers and walking, you are sure to work up a sweat all while having fun.

 

By working out outside in the cold you can boost your metabolism, work up your endurance and burn more calories. One of the great things about the winter is that you can get a workout in without even knowing and have fun. Don’t sweat the cold months, there are plenty of alternatives you can use to burn off some holiday treats!

 

Dr. Barbara R. Edwards, Princeton Internist, practices at Penn Medicine Princeton Health in the Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center. She is also the Academic Director for the Ambulatory Residency Program at Penn Medicine Princeton Health.